Wedding Vows from Scratch

This week we are discussing about Wedding Vows and as much as I could tell you they should be one way or the other weather you decide to copy them from a famous movie or create them yourself I cannot tell you any of them is the best. However we can help you to write the best wedding vows by trying to give you some rules or steps to write your love what you want him or her to listen during the wedding ceremony.

Now we are not going to take the credit for the next steps as we are Wedding Organizers not brides or grooms. We decided to go through the net and take the best advices we could find.

From WikiHow "How to Write Your Own Wedding Vows" we choose their Method Number 2.

1. Write what you love about your beloved. Brainstorm all of the things that make your future spouse so special. This could be his or her beautiful blue eyes, the way your loved one can make you smile no matter how awful you feel, or how your significant other knows exactly what you're thinking even if you're miles away.

• Make a list of adjectives that describe your beloved's best qualities. Think about the ones you want to emphasize in your vows.
• Focus on anecdotes to help emphasize your beloved's best qualities. Saying he is "kind" is less effective than talking about the time he cleaned the whole house because he knew your family was coming for a visit.
• Think about the times your beloved has really been there for you. All good relationships still have some rough patches, and you should think about how your loved one showed character when he helped you through a rough time in your life.

2. Mention key memories in your relationship. Write down the most memorable moments you have shared with your future spouse. This could be anything from your amazing vacation to Napa Valley to the time he stayed in to watch two days worth of bad television with you when you had all of your wisdom teeth taken out.

• Think about the places you have gone together, from a special hike on a mountain top to your favorite restaurant.
• Think about key milestones in your relationship. This could be anything from getting a dog together, moving in together, your first date, or the moment you knew it was meant to be.
• Think about the hardest time of your relationship. How did you work through it together?

3. Write down the promises you want to make to your future spouse. Depending on who your significant other is and what memories you've shared, you'll write a list of promises you will make to your loved one forever. Some can be serious, like always apologizing no matter what, or never going to bed angry, while others can be more fun, like promising to always do the dishes as long as you can win the thermostat war.^[2]

• Remember that in most traditional vows, people promise to be there for their loved one in sickness and in health, through the good times and the bad, and to support them no matter what. Find a personal way to make some of these same points, since that's what marriage is really all about.

4. Remember to be yourself. You may be so focused on writing the perfect vows and impressing your guests that you're forgetting to show what makes you who you are, and what makes your loved one so special. If you're both really silly together, go the silly route. If you're both hopeless romantics, don't be afraid to go over-the-top with some poetic phrases. This is your day and you should show off who you really are.

• You can look at other vows, read poetry, or browse the Internet for inspiration. You can ask a close friend who recently wrote her own vows if she would share them with you. These can be helpful guides, but don't lean too much on the words of other people, and focus on showing what makes your relationship unique.
• If you have a sense of humor, throw in a lighthearted joke! After saying something serious, you can tell your loved one, "I promise to always watch Monday night football with you, as long as you still bring me flowers every week."
• Remember to be yourself, but don't forget your audience. You can still share the best parts of who you are and what your relationship means without isolating, confusing, or boring your audience. Does Grandma Flo want to hear about your beloved's amazing foot massages? Probably not.

5. Get feedback. Once you feel confident about your vows, it's time to get some feedback. Though you may think that your vows will bring your audience to tears, you need to make sure that you've set the right tone and have clearly communicated your feelings before you share them with the world. Here are some people to ask for feedback:

• If you and your spouse-to-be have agreed to share your vows, ask what he really thinks.
• Ask a trusted best friend who really knows you and your relationship to see if it's communicating everything you want to say.
• Ask your parents, or even your grandparents, for advice. Having the insight of an elder will help you understand more about the nature of love.

6. Prepare to say your vows. Once you've got your vows down, all you have to do is focus on the execution. You should practice saying them enough times that it sounds natural, but don't say them so many times that your vows sound too rehearsed. They are supposed to come from the heart, after all.

• Focus on speaking clearly and maintaining eye contact with your beloved while glancing at the audience.
• Remember that on your wedding day, your vows won't sound just like they did when you rehearsed them. You will be a little bit choked up, and that's okay! Your vows will only sound sweeter if your audience sees how much you truly love your future spouse.

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On the next sections we tried to search for some Wedding Vows for you to think about or guide yourselves.

From Weddings About we selected these ones: 

Funny: 

I (Name), take you, (Name) to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife) and chief tennis doubles partner, for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, for when we win and the very very rare occasion when we lose. I promise to love, honor, and cherish you, to return your serves and do my best not to foot fault. This I vow to you.

Devotion: 

I, (name), take you, (name), to be my partner, loving what I know of you, and trusting what I do not yet know. I eagerly anticipate the chance to grow together, getting to know the (man/woman) you will become, and falling in love a little more every day. I promise to love and cherish you through whatever life may bring us.

After both have said individual vows, they may wish to say something in unison such as:

Entreat me not to leave you, or to return from following after you, For where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God. And where you die, I will die and there I will be buried. May the Lord do with me and more if anything but death parts you from me. This is a traditional Jewish text from the book of Ruth. Read more about Jewish weddings.

For the future to be set:

To Grow Along with You

Name, today I become your (husband/wife) and you become my (wife/husband). I will strive to give you the best of myself, while accepting you the way you are. I promise to respect you as a whole person with your own interests, desires, and needs, and to realize that those are sometimes different, but no less important than my own. I promise to keep myself open to you, to let you in to my innermost fears and feelings, secrets and dreams. I promise to grow along with you, to be willing to face change as we both change, keeping our relationship alive and exciting. And finally, I promise to love you in good times and in bad, with all I have to give and all that I am, in the only way I know how -- completely and forever. 

Now we found on youtube one of the best Wedding Vows we can came across... Watch, Listen and Enjoy...

You can ever write them and create you own youtube video for the world to know about your love.

However you decide to write them or video tape them, no matter what this is who you are and the will be perfect.

Good luck and remember to contact us if you are planning to get married in Los Cabos!!!

Km. 28, Costa Azul, Cabo Corridor, Baja, México

C. 52 (624) 176 3066   I   O. 52 (624) 120 6128   I   U.S. (310) 868 6928

www.perfectweddingslaislacabo.com

sergio@perfectweddingslaislacabo.com