Wedding Vows from Scratch

This week we are discussing about Wedding Vows and as much as I could tell you they should be one way or the other weather you decide to copy them from a famous movie or create them yourself I cannot tell you any of them is the best. However we can help you to write the best wedding vows by trying to give you some rules or steps to write your love what you want him or her to listen during the wedding ceremony.

Now we are not going to take the credit for the next steps as we are Wedding Organizers not brides or grooms. We decided to go through the net and take the best advices we could find.

From WikiHow "How to Write Your Own Wedding Vows" we choose their Method Number 2.

1. Write what you love about your beloved. Brainstorm all of the things that make your future spouse so special. This could be his or her beautiful blue eyes, the way your loved one can make you smile no matter how awful you feel, or how your significant other knows exactly what you're thinking even if you're miles away.

• Make a list of adjectives that describe your beloved's best qualities. Think about the ones you want to emphasize in your vows.
• Focus on anecdotes to help emphasize your beloved's best qualities. Saying he is "kind" is less effective than talking about the time he cleaned the whole house because he knew your family was coming for a visit.
• Think about the times your beloved has really been there for you. All good relationships still have some rough patches, and you should think about how your loved one showed character when he helped you through a rough time in your life.

2. Mention key memories in your relationship. Write down the most memorable moments you have shared with your future spouse. This could be anything from your amazing vacation to Napa Valley to the time he stayed in to watch two days worth of bad television with you when you had all of your wisdom teeth taken out.

• Think about the places you have gone together, from a special hike on a mountain top to your favorite restaurant.
• Think about key milestones in your relationship. This could be anything from getting a dog together, moving in together, your first date, or the moment you knew it was meant to be.
• Think about the hardest time of your relationship. How did you work through it together?

3. Write down the promises you want to make to your future spouse. Depending on who your significant other is and what memories you've shared, you'll write a list of promises you will make to your loved one forever. Some can be serious, like always apologizing no matter what, or never going to bed angry, while others can be more fun, like promising to always do the dishes as long as you can win the thermostat war.^[2]

• Remember that in most traditional vows, people promise to be there for their loved one in sickness and in health, through the good times and the bad, and to support them no matter what. Find a personal way to make some of these same points, since that's what marriage is really all about.

4. Remember to be yourself. You may be so focused on writing the perfect vows and impressing your guests that you're forgetting to show what makes you who you are, and what makes your loved one so special. If you're both really silly together, go the silly route. If you're both hopeless romantics, don't be afraid to go over-the-top with some poetic phrases. This is your day and you should show off who you really are.

• You can look at other vows, read poetry, or browse the Internet for inspiration. You can ask a close friend who recently wrote her own vows if she would share them with you. These can be helpful guides, but don't lean too much on the words of other people, and focus on showing what makes your relationship unique.
• If you have a sense of humor, throw in a lighthearted joke! After saying something serious, you can tell your loved one, "I promise to always watch Monday night football with you, as long as you still bring me flowers every week."
• Remember to be yourself, but don't forget your audience. You can still share the best parts of who you are and what your relationship means without isolating, confusing, or boring your audience. Does Grandma Flo want to hear about your beloved's amazing foot massages? Probably not.

5. Get feedback. Once you feel confident about your vows, it's time to get some feedback. Though you may think that your vows will bring your audience to tears, you need to make sure that you've set the right tone and have clearly communicated your feelings before you share them with the world. Here are some people to ask for feedback:

• If you and your spouse-to-be have agreed to share your vows, ask what he really thinks.
• Ask a trusted best friend who really knows you and your relationship to see if it's communicating everything you want to say.
• Ask your parents, or even your grandparents, for advice. Having the insight of an elder will help you understand more about the nature of love.

6. Prepare to say your vows. Once you've got your vows down, all you have to do is focus on the execution. You should practice saying them enough times that it sounds natural, but don't say them so many times that your vows sound too rehearsed. They are supposed to come from the heart, after all.

• Focus on speaking clearly and maintaining eye contact with your beloved while glancing at the audience.
• Remember that on your wedding day, your vows won't sound just like they did when you rehearsed them. You will be a little bit choked up, and that's okay! Your vows will only sound sweeter if your audience sees how much you truly love your future spouse.

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Wedding Vows from Famous Movies

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Sometimes you are not sure what to write for your wedding vows. For Perfect Weddings it is a priority to help you on this hard and lovely task. We know love and writing doesn't always come together. However here are some quotes from some famous movies that you take for your own vows. Nevertheless we suggest that if you choose any of this quotes you add a line or two of your own. Or you can always start with some of these lines and then continuo by your own thoughts. That might help to personalize your vows to your soulmate.

Meet Joe Black

Love is passion, obsession, something you can't live without. Fall head over heels, find someone who you can love like crazy that will love you the same way back. How do you find them? Well, forget your head and listen to your heart … the truth is, there is no sense living your life without this.

10 Things I Hate About You

I hate the way you talk to me and the way you cut your hair. I hate the way you drive my car; I hate it when you stare. I hate your big dumb combat boots and the way you read my mind. I hate you so much that it makes me sick. It even makes me rhyme. I hate the way you're always right. I hate it when you lie. I hate it when you make me laugh, even worse when you make me cry. I hate the way you're not around, and the fact that you didn't call. But mostly I hate the way I don't hate you. Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.

Beautiful Girls

A beautiful girl can make you dizzy.… She can make you feel high, full of the single greatest commodity known to man — promise. Promise of a better day. Promise of a greater hope. Promise of a new tomorrow. This particular aura can be found in the gait of a beautiful girl. In her smile, in her soul, the way she makes every rotten little thing about life seem like it's going to be okay.

Chasing Amy

I love you. Very simple, very truly. You're the epitome of every attribute and quality I've ever looked for in another person.… I can't stand next to you without wanting to hold you. I can't look into your eyes without feeling that longing you only read about in trashy romance novels. I can't talk to you without wanting to express my love for everything you are.… I've never felt this before, and I like who I am because of it.… There isn't another soul on this … planet who's ever made me half the person I am when I'm with you.… I'm forever changed because of who you are and what you've meant to me.

The Notebook

Poets often describe love as an emotion that we can't control, one that overwhelms logic and common sense. That's what it's like for me. I didn't plan on falling in love with you, and I doubt that you planned on falling in love with me. But once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me, love like that has happened only once, and that's why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. I'll never forget a single moment of it.

So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.

The best love is the kind that weakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that's what you've given me. That's what I hope to give to you forever. 

That's my sweetheart in there. Wherever she is, that's where my home is.

Famous Wedding Vows From Netplaces

Now after reading all these quotes it was a surprise I couldn't find the one I consider personally the most beautiful way someone can describe what love truly is. For me A Walk to Remember shall be mark as one of the best vows from famous movies. Perhaps because it wasn't that famous but indeed one of the most romantic movies I have ever seen. 

Here is the quote. 

" Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Loves is never boastful or conceited. It tis never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in others people's sins, but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes. " 

A Walk to Remember. 

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Perfect Wedding at Los Cabos. 

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Wedding Sit Arrangements

Once you are set on your wedding guests list you need to check how you are going to arrange the order they are going to be sited. 

For Perfect Weddings La Isla it is very important to help you on these choices. 

First of all you have to decide how to divide your guests.

These are our suggestions for you to make the best decisions. 

1. Age Arrangements. Once you have your list done. You shall think about the age of your guests. Re-do the list taking this onto account. In that way you can get them sited on tables with the same age range and they will have tons of things to talk about. 
2. Family and Friends. Second way to fix them will be by re.doing the list taking onto account weather they are which part of the family and which part of the friends. If you do this plus the age arrangements you can be almost sure everyone could have a better time during your wedding. 
3. Wedding Party Table. Some of the couples decide that having a Wedding Party Table helps to organized everyone around, plus they can help you to create a better atmosphere taking care of you back while the party is about to start and while it is happening. 
4. Kids Table. If you are going to have kids in your Wedding you should definitely have them sited on the same table. At the same time you should consider a Kids menu for them to enjoy some nuggets, spaghetti and meatballs,  hamburgers or hot dogs. 
5. Family Issues. To mention some of the facts to be consider while making the sit arrangements will be to check upon any kind of family or friends issues. You really don't want to sit your uncle with you cousin if they don't get alone so well nor your brother with you sister if they had just a fight. Consider this last tip before you decide you tables are set. 

Now that you have your list done by tables. You need to consider the next point. "How are my guests going to know where to go to sit down. 

Here are some suggestions for you to have their tickets with your guests' names and make them look like a souvenir at the same time. 

1. Number one. Have a table decorated with pictures of you and your husband. In that way everyone will get the idea they are there for you and not for the party only. 

2. Number two, you can have a portrait with their names in front of their sits on the table for them to know where to sit and to take home as part of your wedding memoralia.

3. Consider that having a wedding in the beach gives you the perfect excuse to use beach decorations. On the picture below you have an example of a perfect way to let them know where to sit down.

4. This is another way to complement your guests and let them know how much you appreciate their presence in your wedding day. Flowers for women and a tequila bottle for men next to a card with their names on it.

5. What about a tequila bottle for everyone as a souvenir. With your name and your husbands name on it. Perfect Weddings perfect souvenir.

That is it for this section. Remember that for us it is very important for you to feel everything is taking care of on the only day that should be perfect for you and your guests. The only day you should be able to relax and enjoy the love that brought you together with your soul mate.

That is why we feel the joy to give you your Perfect Wedding because your happiness is our purpose on your Wedding Day.

Feel free to contact us to organize your Perfect Wedding at Los Cabos. 

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Wedding Chairs Decco

When you plan a Wedding we know there are so many details to think about. There are details more important than others. However every detail counts to make your wedding a perfect day!!!

Here we have a few suggestions to let you decide how would you like your chairs to look like for your guests to sit on your wedding ceremony or during dinner time. 

On this selection you are able to see a big bow on the back of the chairs for the wedding ceremony. Which make this moment look elegant and classic. 

On the next selection you can see a red bow on the back of the chairs dressed with a white cloth for it to stand out.

On this other selection you may notice there is no decoration for these chairs. This is another way to decorate the sightseeing of the guests. The wooden chair make the best choice for this table set decoration because we have already a lot of green on the table.

On the other hand on these chairs you may notice a pick rose with a blow bow made of cloth which brings a very outstanding view to the decoration of the table set.

On the next chairs decoration you notice a knot letting  a free fall of the cloth.

On the next decoration you can see a white bow instead of the knot. You can choose the best for you. Both of them are a nice detail for your guests' chairs during the wedding ceremony.

Another way to make it look special and gorgeous is to use some tule and flowers for the wooden chairs decoration. Just like the next view for the wedding ceremony.

Sometimes brides prefer to use write and a rose of the colors selection for the wedding on the back of the chairs. It really makes it look lovely.

On the next selection you may see a rose bow on the back of the white chairs. You have to be careful to make it look soft and elegant according to your color choice. 

On the next chair you can see the bride decided to go classic keeping the white in all the decoration of the chairs.

Now if you want to go color and remember you wedding was in Los Cabos Mexico. You can keep it as colorful as it is.

We hope we were helpful for you to choose the best decoration for your Wedding Day to be Perfect. 

Feel free to contact us to organize your Wedding at Los Cabos, Mexico with 

Perfect Weddings 

By 

Sergio Morales 

Km. 28, Costa Azul, Cabo Corridor, Baja, México

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sergiow@prodigy.net.mx